He normally is forgiven about these things, especially when he's so cute doing it. Lan Zhan would be so much more patient about it though if he wasn't so terribly embarrassed about the whole thing.

"Wei Ying!" He hisses. Fix this! This is social stuff and he's better at it. Except for the times when Wei Wuxian makes social things worse and then Lan Zhan regrets him ever allowing his husband to speak.

Either way, he hands over the talisman and then lights a candle for him to see.