"Jingyi," he says calmly, raising an eyebrow at his new friend "I used to do stuff like that. For money. Do you really think I'd have been able to do my job if I was uncomfortable talking about it?"

He knows enough about manners and propriety to know he shouldn't talk about it, but he feels like being a little blunt right now might be what Jingyi actually needs.

"Did you want to ask me something about such things?" He prompts gently